A home for queer Africans in the diaspora.
Find your people safely, on your terms.

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Cultural filters that actually matter
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The basics
Your roots
🌎Where are you from originally?›
📍Current country of residence›
Languages you speak
English
French
Yoruba
Twi
Hausa
Igbo
Wolof
Mandinka
Swahili
Arabic
Amharic
Fula
Zulu
Shona
Lingala
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Religion
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Traditional / Spiritual
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Family situation
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Hygiene preferences 💧
This matters more than people admit. Find someone on the same page.
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Water person
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Tissue only
Standard western
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Both flexible
Adaptable
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